Big, big, virtual hug, Marilyn! When my Dad passed, I didn't do much of anything except go to work, for an entire year. And, it was ok. Even now, 25 years later, there are moments when grief rears its head to remind me how much he meant to me. You already said it, grief is an individual journey and no one has the right to tell you what is right or wrong. I love the "do the next right thing" mantra. May you grieve well. 💜